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Better Husband
Better Husband, hosted by Men's Marriage and Relationship Coach Angelo Santiago, is the podcast for married men who want to strengthen and transform their marriages. After 12 years of marriage—including a near-divorce that became the catalyst for profound change—Angelo has dedicated himself to helping men learn the skills to be the husband their spouse deserves.
With a background in facilitating in-person men’s retreats, online men’s communities, and one-on-one coaching, Angelo brings expertise in relational dynamics, men’s issues, and the essential skills for a thriving marriage.
Each week, listeners will gain practical tools, actionable insights, and relatable stories. If you’re ready to communicate better, resolve conflicts effectively, and deepen your intimacy, Better Husband is your guide to answering the question, “How can I be a better husband?”
Better Husband
008|What Every Husband Should Know About Forgiveness and Trust with Dr. Bruce Chalmer
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In this episode of Better Husband, I am joined by psychologist Dr. Bruce Chalmer. We explore the critical issues in marriage when trust has been broken. Dr. Chalmer shares insights from his book 'Betrayal and Forgiveness,' discusses common misconceptions about trust, and offers practical steps for maintaining strong, trusting relationships.
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Connect with Angelo
Website: https://www.angelosantiago.com/
Email: angelo@angelosantiago.com
Connect with Dr. Bruce Chalmer
Website: https://brucechalmer.com/
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00:00 Introduction: Dr. Bruce Chalmer
01:00 The Importance of Trust in Marriage
02:38 Common Misconceptions About Rebuilding Trust
05:10 Stages of Rebuilding Trust
06:42 Addressing Betrayal and Infidelity
11:24 Practical Steps to Rebuild Trust
15:37 External Influences and Stigma
19:07 Actionable Steps for Better Husbands
29:02 Maintaining Strong Trust in Relationships
34:10 Final Thoughts and Advice