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Better Husband
Better Husband, hosted by Men's Marriage and Relationship Coach Angelo Santiago, is the podcast for married men who want to strengthen and transform their marriages. After 12 years of marriage—including a near-divorce that became the catalyst for profound change—Angelo has dedicated himself to helping men learn the skills to be the husband their spouse deserves.
With a background in facilitating in-person men’s retreats, online men’s communities, and one-on-one coaching, Angelo brings expertise in relational dynamics, men’s issues, and the essential skills for a thriving marriage.
Each week, listeners will gain practical tools, actionable insights, and relatable stories. If you’re ready to communicate better, resolve conflicts effectively, and deepen your intimacy, Better Husband is your guide to answering the question, “How can I be a better husband?”
Better Husband
013|Choosing Comfort Over Connection is Sabotaging Your Marriage
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Are you prioritizing comfort over connection in your marriage? Many men fall into the trap of avoiding conflict to keep the peace, but this avoidance creates distance and erodes intimacy. In today’s episode, I share why choosing comfort over connection is sabotaging your marriage and how to break free from the comfort trap to build a deeper, more fulfilling relationship.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
- Why avoiding conflict doesn’t create peace—it creates disconnection.
- The role of discomfort in fostering intimacy and connection.
- How modern marriages demand new relational skills for lasting intimacy.
Key Takeaways:
- Intimacy thrives when we embrace vulnerability and navigate discomfort together.
- Relationships naturally go through cycles of harmony, disharmony, and repair. Success depends on how you handle the repair process.
- Avoiding conflict (the comfort trap) keeps you stuck and prevents deeper connection.
Practical Action Steps:
- Daily Check-Ins: Spend 5 minutes each day asking your wife, “How are you feeling? What do you need?” Practice active listening.
- Repair Rituals: After disagreements, reflect on your part and take accountability. Use phrases like, “I see how I hurt you. How can I make it right?”
- Cherishing Challenge: Commit to three small gestures of love each week, like writing a note or planning a surprise.
Reflection Questions:
- When was the last time you avoided conflict for the sake of comfort?
- How can you lean into discomfort this week to foster connection in your marriage?
Ready to Take Action?
If you’re serious about prioritizing your marriage and making real changes, I’ve opened up coaching spots for men who are truly ready to commit to growth.
📅 Book a Coaching Call → angelosantiago.com
🎯 Download the Better Husband Toolkit → betterhusbandtoolkit.com
📺 Subscribe on YouTube → Better Husband Channel
📩 Email Me → angelo@angelosantiago.com