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Better Husband
Better Husband, hosted by Men's Marriage and Relationship Coach Angelo Santiago, is the podcast for married men who want to strengthen and transform their marriages. After 12 years of marriage—including a near-divorce that became the catalyst for profound change—Angelo has dedicated himself to helping men learn the skills to be the husband their spouse deserves.
With a background in facilitating in-person men’s retreats, online men’s communities, and one-on-one coaching, Angelo brings expertise in relational dynamics, men’s issues, and the essential skills for a thriving marriage.
Each week, listeners will gain practical tools, actionable insights, and relatable stories. If you’re ready to communicate better, resolve conflicts effectively, and deepen your intimacy, Better Husband is your guide to answering the question, “How can I be a better husband?”
Better Husband
019|Why Most Men Don’t Prioritize Their Marriage (Until It’s Too Late)
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Most men say their marriage is a priority. But when life gets busy, when work, stress, and distractions take over, do your actions actually reflect that?
This week, I had to make that choice. My wife’s birthday, family responsibilities, and commitments to the people I love all demanded my attention. And in that moment, I had to decide—do I pour my energy into producing a highly polished podcast episode, or do I live out what I teach and put my marriage first?
This short episode is a wake-up call. Because the truth is, marriages don’t fall apart all at once—they fade, choice by choice, priority by priority. If you don’t intentionally prioritize your marriage now, you may find yourself trying to fix things when it’s already too late.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
✅ Why most men say their marriage is important—but don’t act like it.
✅ The everyday choices that reveal what you actually prioritize.
✅ A powerful lesson from Elf about choosing your family over work.
✅ The hard truth about why so many marriages fall apart slowly over time.
Key Takeaways:
💡 Your priorities aren’t what you say they are—they’re what your actions prove.
💡 Every small decision you make either strengthens or weakens your marriage.
💡 If you don’t take action now, you might be forced to later—when it’s almost too late.
Reflection Questions:
❓ Are your daily actions proving that your marriage is a top priority?
❓ What distractions are pulling your time and attention away from your wife?
❓ If nothing changes, where will your marriage be in five years?
Final Thought:
This week, pay attention to the small choices you make. When the moment comes, choose your marriage.
Ready to Take Action?
If you’re serious about prioritizing your marriage and making real changes, I’ve opened up coaching spots for men who are truly ready to commit to growth.
📅 Book a Coaching Call → angelosantiago.com
🎯 Download the Better Husband Toolkit → betterhusbandtoolkit.com
📺 Subscribe on YouTube → Better Husband Channel
📩 Email Me → angelo@angelosantiago.com