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Better Husband, hosted by Men's Marriage and Relationship Coach Angelo Santiago, is the podcast for married men who want to strengthen and transform their marriages. After 12 years of marriage—including a near-divorce that became the catalyst for profound change—Angelo has dedicated himself to helping men learn the skills to be the husband their spouse deserves.

With a background in facilitating in-person men’s retreats, online men’s communities, and one-on-one coaching, Angelo brings expertise in relational dynamics, men’s issues, and the essential skills for a thriving marriage.

Each week, listeners will gain practical tools, actionable insights, and relatable stories. If you’re ready to communicate better, resolve conflicts effectively, and deepen your intimacy, Better Husband is your guide to answering the question, “How can I be a better husband?”

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020|How to Build a Championship Marriage: 5 Winning Strategies

March 18, 2025 • Episode 70

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The best teams in sports don’t win by accident—they follow a proven strategy. The same is true for marriage. If you want a strong, connected, and lasting relationship, you need a game plan.

A few episodes ago, we covered the five losing strategies that keep couples stuck in conflict. But avoiding the wrong moves isn’t enough—you need to know the winning plays that create trust, intimacy, and long-term success in your marriage.

In this episode, I’ll break down the five winning strategies that will help you and your wife communicate better, solve conflicts faster, and build the kind of marriage that feels like a true partnership.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

✅ The five winning strategies that make marriages thrive
✅ Why the best relationships are built on teamwork, not competition
✅ How to ask for what you need without starting a fight
✅ The key to expressing yourself in a way your wife can actually hear
✅ How to empower and uplift each other every single day

Key Takeaways:

💡 Complaints don’t create change—clear requests do.
💡 The way you communicate matters as much as what you say.
💡 Great marriages aren’t just about avoiding problems—they’re about building connection.

Practical Action Steps:

1️⃣ Shift from complaint to request – Focus on what you want moving forward.
2️⃣ Speak with love and savvy – Say things in a way that strengthens your marriage.
3️⃣ Respond with generosity – Look for ways to support and acknowledge your wife.
4️⃣ Empower each other – Recognize and appreciate your partner’s efforts.
5️⃣ Cherish what you have – Regularly show gratitude and invest in your relationship.

Reflection Questions:

❓ Are you making clear requests, or just pointing out what’s wrong?
❓ How can you express yourself in a way that builds connection?
❓ What’s one thing your wife does that you could appreciate more?

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